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Out of My Mind – May/June 2013

By Colin Saxton – General Secretary

Much as I love the testimonies that begin to describe the Quaker experience, I think the most compelling attribute I appreciate about Friends is our sense of hope. At least when we are at our best, hope permeates our work and witness.

Just as his life was about to circle the drain one last time, George Fox found hope in the living presence of Jesus and was forever changed. Since that day, Friends have continued to experience and express hope in so many different ways. Hope is seen in the expectation we bring to worship, as we make room for Christ to show up in our midst to teach us. In the same vein, we practice the hopeful work of discernment, demonstrating our confident trust that God is actually able and willing to lead us if we will listen. Radical hope is expressed in our convictions about nonviolence. Who trusts the power of love to vanquish evil and violence in a world armed and ready to fight? As far as I can see, only the very, very hopeful!

But hope isn’t something we can hold in our hands. Instead, I would suggest, that it is always out in front of us, just beyond arms length. It is a mystery that draws us, calling to us until we move to meet it. Hope is a verb — the expression of faith-in-action — and is really only experienced in our continued pursuit of it.

It is this place of movement, however, where hope is also most vulnerable. Without a continual willingness to move toward what we anticipate, hope can quickly fade. Only a few years ago, much of the world was abuzz about the possibility of “hope and change.” High expectations were circulating and anticipation was building for significant transformation in the U.S. and across the world. Change, however, did not occur in as sweeping or as easy a way as many wanted. Resistance to change — even good and agreed-upon change — is often much more fierce and relentless than we expect. Other factors, many completely outside our control, may complicate the process of change. Without something sturdier than emotion to propel us, it becomes awfully easy for hope to slip away and even die.

Lost or fading hope tends to breed cynicism, sarcasm and despair. We have a lot of that in our world and it easily creeps into the life of faith if we are not careful. Recovering cynics like me are especially at risk and our presence in the community can be lethal to others. Communities need people who are grounded in hope, who continue to invite us toward Christ and his kingdom even, or maybe especially, when challenges arise.

I’ve been struck recently by two phrases in scripture around hope. One emerges from Zechariah the prophet, who calls the people of God “prisoners of hope.” Despite their captivity, poverty, lack of religious freedom and constant threat of military conflict, he pictured them as prisoners of hope. Not prisoners to despair or fear, but as people imprisoned by the knowledge of God being for them and by the messianic hope in which the broken world is being set right. I see so many ways in which this phrase aptly describes Friends in our history. I wonder how or if it does today?

The other phrase springs from Hebrews 10, where Jesus’ followers are called to an “unswerving hope.” I love the image of moving forward through the inevitable blocks and barriers that arise. It evokes a sense of persevering through inevitable difficulty and discouragement. It is faithful discipleship for the long haul, and the self-awareness that God’s glorious intent is brought about in time and space by a people who practice hope one step at a time.

In my travels among Friends, it is easy to detect meetings and churches which have hope. I see it and hear it practiced in many ways. It shows up in your expectant worship, in the way you engage your communities, in your willingness to look toward the future, in the way you invest your time and treasure in one another, in your children, in the world. I confess I have run across a few communities, too, where hope seems to be fading fast. I wonder in those cases, how hope might be restored?

How do you see hope in your meeting or church? Are you moving toward it together? When others look at your life together, do you imagine they catch a glimmer of hope, as well?

Spreading the Word – May/June 2013

By Micah Bales – Web & Communications Specialist

I still remember when I discovered as a small child that the world would lie to me, using my hoping, yearning heart as bait to sell me a product. Burger King aired a television commercial with cartoons that convinced me that the toy in their kid’s meal would be nothing short of life-changing. I begged and pleaded with my parents to take me to get the toy. I nagged them into submission. When they finally surrendered and took me to Burger King, I did not even bother with the food; my hands went straight to the little plastic package containing . . . a pencil topper. Even at that young age I realized: I had been scammed!

I was an easy mark. God gave me an oversized hunger for meaning. From my earliest childhood memories, intense and visceral longing has been at the core of my experience. I yearn for that which should be, but is not yet. I feel in my bones a conviction that there is a deeper, more beautiful reality to be experienced. Most troubling of all, I have a gnawing sense that I myself am not as I should be. I feel a deep disconnect in my life, and I yearn for a truer, more authentic way of being in the world.

This last part has been especially difficult to accept. I have always found it easy to critique the world, but turning this fierce critique around on myself is more challenging. During my teens and early twenties, I experienced short bursts of awareness: I would see the disorder of my thoughts, desires and inclination, the darkness and despair at my center. Yet, for the most part, this awareness only served to increase my fury against the world and those around me. I was willing to do anything to make the world a better place, anything except acknowledge my own brokenness and sin.

Fortunately the Holy Spirit has a lot of experience with cutting through delusion. Thanks to God’s intervention in my life, I have come to trust in Jesus to reveal the ways that I rebel against God and to teach me how to be his disciple. Over time, I have learned that Jesus offers the most meaningful answer to my hard-wired yearning for ultimate meaning and purpose. He is my hope.
In my experience, authentic hope is impossible without Christ’s light showing me my broken condition and inviting me to embrace my powerlessness and need for God’s intervention. That is not to say that there are not other things in which we can choose to hope. Today there are many entities vying for our trust and loyalty: political candidates, soft drink manufacturers, the military and charitable nonprofits, just to name a few. All want to direct our hope towards themselves. “Hope in us. We can deliver.”

What do these individuals and institutions promise us? Sometimes it is security or wealth. Other times we are offered freedom, sex or status. Some of the most seductive are those that offer us a sense of belonging and purpose as part of a greater whole. Ultimately, the implied pay-off is always the same: “We can answer that deepest yearning that you carry inside.”

The world is full of counterfeit hopes, elaborate imitations of the satisfying goodness and steadfastness for which we yearn. Rather than directing us to look within and encounter the truth about ourselves in the face of Jesus Christ, the powers of this world are seeking to entice us with their baubles. They would have us place our hope in our nation, a sports team, military might or Coca-Cola — anything, as long as we stay addicted to their spectacle and alienated from Christ, who is the source of all true power and healing.

The many false hopes of the world are seductive precisely because they do not ask us to face the darkness within. It is easy for us to project our darkness out onto the world rather than face the truth within. We find real hope when we are ready to see ourselves as we truly are, in all our brokenness and weakness, and are transformed, one day at a time.

The world will always have another solution for us to try, another product or service or institution that it says will finally fulfill us. But for those of us who have experienced the revealing, transforming, healing light of Jesus, we know that our only true hope is in him.

FUM News in Brief – May/June 2013

Friends United Meeting Announces New Global Ministries Director

Current FUM Field Staff member, Eden Grace, will soon be serving as the FUM Global Ministries Director. Along with her ministry experience and service abroad, Eden possesses a deep love for Jesus and a relentless conviction that Christ seeks to use FUM to both proclaim and demonstrate the good news to the whole world. She has tremendous organizational and administrative gifts and a passion to help translate ministry ideas into effective programming.

The timeline for Eden and her family to move to Indiana is still being negotiated. Please continue to support Eden in her work as a Field Staff member over the next several months. In the future, your support of the FUM general fund will help release Eden to better coordinate the work we do around the world.

Ramallah Friends School Appoints Principal for Lower School

Ramallah Friends School Board of Trustees and Friends United Meeting appointed Dr. Kenneth Hulslander to serve as Friends Girls School (FGS/lower school) Principal. Kenneth has a B.A. in French from the University of Colorado, Boulder and an Education Specialist degree in Educational Leadership and Policy from the University of Colorado, Denver. He holds a M.A. in Text Linguistics and a Ph.D. in Semiology (cultural linguistics) from the Université du Québec à Montréal.

Dr. Hulslander began his career in adult education and then moved to teaching English as a second language (ESL) for high school students in Québec City and Montréal, Canada. During that time, he helped build a secondary school and wrote curriculum for the ESL program in the district. After 26 years in Canada, he returned to the U.S. and spent three years working for the Wyoming Department of Education as a school improvement and accreditation consultant. From there Dr. Hulslander became a principal of a K-12 school and then moved to Denver to assume his current position as the principal of an elementary school where many of the students are learning English as a second language.

Kenneth will be responsible for working with the administrative team at FGS, continuing the excellent work started under Hendrik Taatgen’s leadership and improving the quality of education to better meet international standards. Ken shared, “I am thrilled to be joining your community and to be able to contribute to the continued advancement of education at the Ramallah Friends School through its great Quaker tradition.”

Of his educational philosophy, Ken said, “I also have the profound belief that our job on this planet it to make sure that we open as many doors for as many people as possible and that true evil is embodied in keeping our fellow human beings from being all that they can be. Socrates spoke of it in terms of ‘purifying the light.’ This belief manifested itself through my work as a teacher and continues now in my role as a leader. Furthermore, I believe that in order to learn, one must be willing to be off balance — I have always tried to provide metaphoric spaces where students and staff feel safe enough to step outside of the box and try new things, or in some cases, become something that they have always dreamed of becoming and didn’t have the time or the confidence to do so. Education is about showing people that doors of opportunity exist and then helping them to open them.”

Kaimosi Hospital Intern for a Day

By Eden Grace

My job allows me to help other people experience Kenya and learn about themselves through that experience. Recently, a college student from Chicago who is in Kenya on a semester study abroad program happened to meet my husband at the kiosk where he usually buys his lunch. Attracted to his American accent and being a bit homesick, she introduced herself to him. My husband invited her to dinner at our house, and we really enjoyed getting to know her. We learned that she is a pre-med student doing an internship at a Kisumu city council health clinic, but she has been disappointed with the lack of patient contact.

I offered to take her with me to Kaimosi Hospital so she could see medicine practiced in a rural context. On the day we went to Kaimosi there was supposed to be an outreach event at a USFW conference, but the hospital wasn’t able to get any HIV test kits, so the outreach was cancelled. Consequently our guest spent the entire morning talking to Agatha, our HIV/AIDS program coordinator. In the afternoon, two emergencies arrived; Dr. Ben pulled the pre-med student into the operating room to observe. Dr. Ben is a tremendously gifted teacher and has a very hands-on approach. Before long our visitor was learning how to examine the uterus to determine if the placenta had been retained. Afterwards she told me that she was terrified to touch the patient, but was able to overcome that fear and discover in herself a capacity that she didn’t know she had. She speaks of coming back to Kaimosi for a year before entering medical school to get that real-world experience that Dr. Ben is so good at providing. I couldn’t help but take a picture of her as she dove into her first real patient contact.

Kaimosi Hospital Update

By Eden Grace

It has been helpful for me to think of Friends United Meeting’s role with Kaimosi Hospital as a “receiver general” assuming the management of a company that has declared bankruptcy. In January 2006, when FUM stepped in, the hospital needed, for its survival, massive recapitalization, better management and better strategies to enhance community relationships.

With God’s help and the partnership of many thousands of Friends around the world, the hospital has come a long way! Currently, it is well staffed and offers quality healthcare to the surrounding community. Yes, things could be better, and improvements could be made. However, when I look back on the progress this ministry has made, I must celebrate all of its accomplishments.

The prospects for the future of Kaimosi Hospital recently took an unexpected turn. Over the last few months, I have had several meetings, telephone conversations and countless emails regarding a new proposal for a partnership between Kaimosi Hospital and the National Council of Churches of Kenya (NCCK). The NCCK has selected Kaimosi to be its first pilot site of a new project developing superior-quality ecumenical hospitals throughout Kenya. In a partnership involving NCCK, East Africa Yearly Meeting and Friends Church in Kenya, the hospital will be renamed Jumuia (pronounced joo-moo-EE-ah) meaning community or council in Swahili. The NCCK will bring extensive investment to facilities, equipment and staffing, allowing a quality of service heretofore unknown in rural western Kenya.

FUM’s 2013 Summer Mission Project: Teacher for Teachers

Friends around the world joined together to pray for peaceful elections in Kenya this year. Those prayers, alongside the faithful presence and witness of Friends in the country, helped minimize violence and promote peace and reconciliation in many places. As a result, hopeful signs of change may be emerging in a country known for violence and conflict.

What about Kenya’s future? Can peacemaking efforts strengthen and expand the influence of the next generation of Friends? The 2013 Summer Mission Project aims in this direction. By equipping, energizing educators and better supporting the 1200+ Quaker schools in Kenya, FUM hopes to nurture a new generation of young people committed to peace and Friends values.

The African Ministries Office of FUM hired Education Director Zadock Malesi, a specialist in the field of education to serve as a liaison between FUM all of the Quaker schools in Kenya. Leadership development and training of administrators and teachers to promote Quaker faith and testimonies in the school curriculum is Zadock’s primary focus. He further desires to see the development and implementation of the peace curriculum in all the schools. FUM feels his influence in the schools will make a direct and vital impact on many lives.

Imagine the impact of biblical peacemaking, practical tools and training for conflict resolution taught to thousands of children across Kenya! What differences might peace-making skills make in the classroom, in the lives of families, in neighborhoods and across tribal lines? Imagine Christian-Quaker values formed into the lives of a next generation of leaders, business people and community members. As one Kenyan Friend said at an FUM event, “This is one of the most important projects FUM is doing in our country right now!”

FUM’s Summer Mission goal is to raise $20,000 to support Zadock’s work in these schools. Instead of building a classroom this year, help FUM invest directly in the lives of Friends students!

FUM Yearly Meeting Schedule

Yearly Meeting Session – Dates Session – Location

Cuba Yearly Meeting – Campanento Amigos, Gibara Holguin, Cuba
Western Association – Feb 8-9, 2013 – Whittier First Friends Meeting, California
USFWI Treinnial – July 4-7, 2013 – Indianapolis, Indiana
Great Plains Yearly Meeting – May 30 – June 2, 2013 – Wichita, Kansas
Western Yearly Meeting – July 18-21, 2013 – Plainfield, Indiana
New York Yearly Meeting – July 21-27, 2013 – Silver Bay, New York
Wilmington Yearly Meeting – August 2-4, 2013 – Wilmington area churches, Ohio
Indiana Yearly Meeting – July 25-28, 2013 – Quaker Haven Camp, Indiana
Baltimore Yearly Meeting – July 29-August 4, 2013 – Frostburg State University, Maryland
Jamaica Yearly Meeting – Shortwood Teachers College, Kingston, Jamaica

Guilford College Students Mission Trip to Cuba

By Linda Garrison

In early January, Linda and Meredith Garrison led a group of six Guilford College students and a recent grad on a Quaker Peace Study Tour in Cuba. Friends United Meeting partnered with Guilford College (Greensboro, North Carolina) to offer this opportunity.

Neither Guilford nor FUM required participants to speak Spanish, or that they be Christian or Quaker. It was, however, expected that students be interested in peacemaking, have the overall stamina for travel and community life, and understand and accept they would be attending many church gatherings.

Part of the experience was attending two seminary courses, with 20 Cuban Friends at the Cuban Quaker Institute for Peace. Capable translators helped in the classroom and Americans joined Cubans in small groups and later in walks around town. Friendships were formed, meals were shared, opinions and addresses exchanged; slowly, community formed.

Some of the work on facilities included painting and the arduous task at Holguin Meeting of lifting supplies using buckets via rope and pulleys. Community was formed as the mason patiently allowed the students to prepare whatever MEZCLA (mix) was needed.

The group visited different homes in the city of Holguin every evening (when they weren’t in church services), sharing a meal and getting a glimpse of family life in multi-generational homes. Chess games were lost (by Americans), new foods eaten (again, by Americans), strange phrases spoken — often incorrectly (by both Americans and Cubans) and respect began to grow.
It was a time of learning and a time of growth for all who were involved.

Save the Date!

• Sharing our Stories: The First Annual Gathering of Friendly Mystics — A retreat organized by the editors of What Canst Thou Say?
June 14-16, 2013
Earlham College Richmond, Indiana
Email Michael Resman at: resmanmh@aol.com

• USFWI/QMI Triennial Conference
July 4-7, 2013
Radisson Airport Hotel in Indianapolis, Indiana
Theme: Take Courage

• Bridging Gaps: For those who care for Youth and Young AdultsSeptember 20-22, 2013
Friends United Meeting, Richmond, Indiana

• Friends United Meeting Triennial
June 11-14, 2014
Indiana Wesleyan University, Marion, Indiana
Theme: A Great People to be Gathered — in Christ,in Community, for Mission
Richard J. Foster — Johnson Lecturer
James Bryan Smith — Quaker Mens Banquet and
Daily Devotion Speaker

Making a Difference with Hope

By Noell Krughoff – FUM representative to FCNL

Faith — Hope — Love. According to the Apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 13, these are the “big three”. Faith and love are terms that call us to do concrete things. A simple definition of faith is, “belief in God and his goodness.” Love is the action component, giving us tangible ways to express that goodness. But what does hope call us to do? Is it, in actuality, just wishful thinking? Are we naïve to hope for aspirations like world peace?

Not at all! This resounding sentiment emerged from a recent “Seeking Friends” adult First Day class at First Friends Meeting in Indianapolis, Indiana at which the group grappled with the concept of hope. Here are some thoughts that emerged:

• Hope allows us to deal with imperfection. When reality collides with the image of what isn’t, but should be, hope is born.
• Hope is the basis for all human advancement. It is the precursor that gives us courage to take action.
• Hope is not only intellectual or emotional, it’s visionary. It creates a roadmap for our journey toward a better world.

Hope engages our imagination and allows us to see — and long for — what God’s goodness can do today and in the future. That is why we need Quaker organizations like Friends Committee on National Legislation (FCNL). They give us hope that our faith and love can make a difference in this strife-filled world. FCNL has the courage to say “war is not the answer.” In fact, there are actions we can take to bring the wildly optimistic hope of peace closer to reality.

If you visit the FCNL website and go to the Peaceful Prevention of Deadly Conflict page you will read true-life stories of how hope for a more peaceful world has been a catalyst for real solutions to conflict and violence. Here is an example from the website:

Development (Peru and Ecuador)

For more than 150 years, Peru and Ecuador disputed — and often fought over— their border. In 1998, after a series of failed peace accords, both countries signed the Acta Presidencial de Brasilia, which established Adjacent Zones of Ecological Protection on both sides of the borPerspectivesder.

This new approach used shared biodiversity protection to facilitate bilateral cooperation and post-conflict recovery. In addition to preventing further outbreaks of violent conflict between Peru and Ecuador, the compromise has fostered social, cultural, and economic development of local communities while building their capacity to conserve natural resources.

The United States, along with Brazil, Argentina and Chile agreed to act as “guarantors” of the peace agreement, monitoring and supporting implementation. Since 2001, the U.S. Agency for International Development (USAID) has committed $20 million in development aid to train health professionals, increase access to new business permits, establish mechanisms for identifying human rights abuses, and build a bridge across the Amazon River. The successful peace accord between Peru and Ecuador demonstrates how environmental cooperation and good development can help break cycles of violence and replace competition with cooperation.

The Seeking Friends group has been reading Parker J. Palmer’s Healing the Heart of Democracy. Palmer ends his book with this beautiful quote from theologian Reinhold Niebuhr’s The Irony of American History: “Nothing that is worth doing can be achieved in our lifetime; therefore, we must be saved by hope. Nothing which is true or beautiful or good makes complete sense in any immediate context of history; therefore, we must be saved by faith. Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone; therefore we are saved by love.” Faith, hope and love really are the big three.

Noell Krughoff and her husband Tom are newly appointed FUM representatives to Friends Committee on National Legislation. They attend First Friends Meeting in Indianapolis and live in rural Shelby County, Indiana.

Book Reviews – May/June 2013

Iran and Israel: Wars and Rumors of Wars

By Mark Hitchcock
Harvest House Publishers, 2013, 224 pp., $13.99

Should Israel make a pre-emptive attack on Iran due to Iran’s determined and rapid progress toward achieving a nuclear weapon? Oklahoma City area scholar, pastor and lawyer Mark Hitchcock believes it would be justified. He bases his opinion on the remarks by leading Iranian authorities that the Zionists of Israel are a major threat to the peace of the Middle East, and that threat must be stopped. Hitchcock’s views are too extreme and endanger the whole world, not just the Middle East. His emphasis is on Ezekiel 38, 39 in the Bible, which depicts the End Time war between Israel, Gog and Magog. The latter two are supernaturally defeated by God as he rescues Israel from defeat.

Not explained is why God does so even though Israel has acted treacherously. The author says that Israel is ready to fight against godless invaders of Israel. He ignores the fact that Iran is a Muslim nation who worships one God, just as Israel does. Neither nation worships idols nor accepts Jesus Christ as the promised Messiah, Son of God and Savior of those who commit to him. It seems that Israel is just as friendly to antichristian views as Iran and other Muslim nations are. That is so except when Israeli leaders are courting huge contributions from arch-conservative evangelical Christian Americans who believe we must support and defend Israel at all costs. For them the Zionists make exceptions for friendships.

Also not explained is why the arch-conservative Christians believe that God always supports Israel, even though we know that God has allowed Israel to be defeated and dispersed many times. Some examples of the conquerors were the Assyrians, Babylonians, Greeks, Romans and Muslims. Each dispersal got longer, as was promised in Leviticus 26. The main helper for the Jews was Persia (Iran), who defeated Babylonia and freed the captives to return to their homeland in the sixth century B.C. England and America rendered similar aid after World War II. The Jews have not had a king on a throne since the Romans conquered them long before Jesus was on Earth bodily. Evidently God did not think the Jews’ behavior merited his fulfilling his promise to always have a descendant of David on Israel’s throne. They broke their covenant with God repeatedly. Their modem mistreatment of the Palestinians is part of a long string of oppressions of the poor and the powerless.

The Gog/Magog battle is described in Revelation 20:8, coming at the end of the 1000 year reign of Jesus on Earth, which has not yet happened. Why say it is near-at-hand in our times?

If you live by the sword, you will die by the sword, said Jesus in Matthew 26:52, and he told the disciples to put up their swords. Keep in mind it was Israel who introduced nuclear weapons to the Middle East-many of them. They should have known that neighboring nations would think they needed them also for defense against Israel, which seems to be the case. Using weapons to solve conflicts was not what Jesus encouraged, especially to preserve the wealthy and strong over the poor and the weak. Christians should encourage cooler heads to promote negotiations and see what love can do through positive acts of friendships.

Del Coppinger
Oskaloosa, lowa

Ministry in the Digital Age

By David T. Bourgeois
InterVarsity Press, 2013, 144 pp., $15

In Ministry in the Digital Age, David Bourgeois brings his extensive experience administering digital communications in the business world to the unique challenges and opportunities of ministry. He focuses especially on the needs and challenges of organizations, whether they be local congregations, para-church organizations or religious non-profits. Bourgeois moves methodically through what volunteers and professionals, congregations and organizations should consider and plan for establishing, promoting and maintaining their digital strategy.

Ministry in the Digital Age is especially relevant for those who are operating within an organization that is looking to begin, expand or improve its digital presence and outreach. Bourgeois systematically walks the reader through a range of best practices that ensure the integrity, security and effectiveness of online communications. He frames his book around three key aspects of digital ministry – technology, process and people, taking care to address one of the most frequently overlooked aspects of digital strategy: how to structure and manage coordination between various staff members and volunteers within an organization.

David Bourgeois has written a very serviceable book that lends guidance for those who are entirely new to digital communications, while at the same time providing helpful reminders and insights
for those with years of experience under their belts.

Micah Bales
Washington, D.C.

Finding God in the Hobbit

By Jim Ware
Tynsdale House Publishers, 2006, 177 pp., $14.99

I gave this book to my daughter, Kate, who is the youth leader for the Richmond (Indiana) middle school youth group as a resource to help her create a program. With the release of the movie, The Hobbit, Kate thought this might be the perfect resource. A few weeks after she began to read it, she asked me to read it. “It is pretty good, Mom,” she stated. (This is, indeed, high praise.)

As I began reading I realized this little book was not only a good devotional, but a great avenue in which “morsels of spiritual nourishment” were savored. Both my daughter and I enjoyed reading this devotional together.

This book is part of the Finding God series, which utilizes favorite movies such as The Lord of the Rings and The Chronicles of Narnia to have readers encounter God in unexpected ways. What I appreciated most was the sense of adventure the writer provided. He writes, “Faith is an ongoing adventure, not simply a one-time choice. ‘The Road goes ever on and on,’ as Bilbo regularly reminded Frodo. Once we hear the knock on the door and step onto the Road, there’s no turning back. Life will never be the same.”

The nuggets of spiritual nourishment within the pages of this devotional cause one not only to reflect on God’s grace, but to gain the courage to step forward on the Road and know the travel with God will be quite an adventure.

Annie Glen
Centerville, Indiana

Passages: Quaker Obituaries – May/June 2013

MOTT Jeremy Hardin Mott, 66, died of an intestinal hemorrhage on September 2, 2012 in Roanoke, Virginia. Jeremy was born on December 3, 1945 in New York City to Kathryn Hardin Mott and John Colman Mott. He was the eldest, with three younger sisters. When Jeremy was still a baby, his parents joined Ridgewood Friends Meeting as convinced Friends and also added him to membership. Growing up in Ridgewood, New Jersey, and Rochester, New York, he actively participated with the rest of his family in the local monthly meetings as well as New York Yearly Meeting. Summer sessions at Farm and Wilderness Camps, Vermont, and three years at Sandy Spring Friends School, Maryland (class ‘63) also shaped his early Quaker experience. During the late 1950s and early 1960s he attended the Easter peace vigils in Times Square and in the summer of ‘63 he joined the March on Washington, just before attending Harvard University for two years. Since early childhood, Jeremy was fascinated with trains. At age eight, after being interviewed by the station master in New York City, he was allowed to take the train by himself to visit grandparents in Florida. As a teenager he once rode the entire New York subway system on one token, and also began a collection of timetables which enabled him to give detailed advice on passenger routes for any destination. When he took a break from Harvard, he followed his life-long love of railroads, working for the Erie Railroad.

No longer protected by a student deferment, he was drafted in October 1966. He obtained conscientious objector status and joined the Brethren Volunteer Service, serving three months at the National Institute of Health in Bethesda, Maryland, and four months at Bethany Brethren Hospital in Chicago. However, to strengthen his protest against the Vietnam War and the draft, he burned his draft card at the April 15, 1967, Mobilization Against the War in New York City. Together with others, he founded the Chicago Area Draft Resisters (CADRE), whose members still treasure how much they learned from him about Quaker ways of working well together in groups. In his individual witness, he resigned from BVS writing: “Both the joy which comes from acting in accordance with one’s conscience and the agony which comes from facing the risks of such action obscure the real agony of the Vietnam situation…By affirming the value of the lives of people and denying the righteousness of murder and slavery we can at least help keep some vestige of brotherhood a reality among men.” His letter to the Selective Service System stated “My job, as a pacifist and as a person opposed to this war in Vietnam, is to resist our warring government, including the Selective Service System, rather than to seek special privileges from it.”

In December 1967, he was one of the first in the country to go to trial for resisting the draft. He was the first to receive the maximum prison sentence of five years, which was reduced on appeal to four. Upon his release from prison in 1969 on parole after 16 months of imprisonment, he worked for more than three years for the Midwest Committee for Draft Counseling, the Chicago office of the Central Committee for Conscientious Objectors. There he wrote and published a regular newsletter about draft law, which was sent to 5,000 counselors nationwide who helped young men consider alternatives to military service. He and his new wife also were living below-taxable income in order to avoid supporting the military. Both before and after prison, he was an active member of the 57th Street Friends Meeting. Jeremy met Judith Franks at New York Yearly Meeting in 1969. They married in 1970 under the care of Summit (New Jersey) Friends Meeting and settled together in Chicago. Their daughter, Mary Hannah was born in 1974. Jeremy obtained his BA from the University of Illinois-Chicago in 1975. The family moved to New Jersey in 1976, living in Hoboken, Ridgewood and then Hackensack. He worked for Amtrak, as a dispatcher. During this period he rejoined Ridgewood Friends Meeting and was active in New York Yearly Meeting. He also served on committees for what is now the Center on Conscience and War in Washington, D.C., and also for the Farm and Wilderness Camps in Vermont. Besides his wife Judith Franks Mott and his daughter Mary Hannah Mott, he is survived by his mother, Kathryn Hardin Mott, his sisters Margaret Mott, Jessica Mott and Bethany Joanna Mott and their families, and Mary’s partner, Jacob Wise.

LEONARD Bonnie V. Leonard, 93, died October 25, 2012, in Crawfordsville, Indiana. She and her husband, Garnett, were members of Tangier Friends Meeting in Tangier, Indiana. She was born on a farm in Edgar County, Illinois, on December 9, 1918, the daughter of Charles E. and Lottie M. (Tresner) Hall. The family moved to a farm in Greene Township, Parke County, Indiana, where Bonnie graduated from Greene Township High School in 1936. On December 31, 1936, she married Garnett D. Leonard and began a farming life of 64 years together that ended with his death on December 8, 2000. She also worked for 13 years in the Tangier post office. After Garnett’s death she moved to Crawfordsville to be closer to her children. Her greatest satisfaction was working with Garnett on the farm and raising her family, but she had many interests. She was an avid reader to the last, when she was almost blind and used a magnifying machine to see individual words. She enjoyed and was known around the community for her crocheting, rug weaving, and quilting. At Crawfordsville she created quilts for the Binky Patrol, a firefighter support group, who gave them to children whose homes had burned. She also made them for her grandchildren and great-grandchildren as long as she could do that. In addition, she liked stamp collecting and researching family history. She especially enjoyed the visits of her family and friends from Parke County and the Tangier area. Preceding her in death were her parents; brothers, Don L. and William D.; sisters Mildred Johnson and an infant sister, Virginia Ruth. Surviving are her children: Robert (Barbara), Virginia Van Hook, Vivian Bartley, David (Joyce), and Gary (Gayle); 14 grandchildren, 31 great-grandchildren, and four great-great-grandchildren, all of whom she enjoyed immensely.

ROBINSON Betty Lou Robinson, 91, (May 26, 1921–March 21, 2013) Betty Lou Robinson, left this earth on March 21, 2013 at the age of 91. She had recently been residing at the Kansas Christian Home in Newton, Kansas. Betty was born May 26, 1921, at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Houston, Texas. She graduated from the League City High School and subsequently married John L. Robinson on June 28, 1939, in Richmond, Texas. John and Betty became the parents of five children who survive: Rebecca (Larry) Edwards, David (Jan) Robinson, Karen (Johnny) Schmidt, Cindy (Guy) Hood and Daniel (Debbie) Robinson. Also surviving are 11 grandchildren; 19 great-grandchildren; and five great great-grandchildren. Betty also became “mother” to the younger siblings of her husband John; Annie Robinson Riley, Daniel D. and Clint Robinson. Betty was homemaker, mother, Sunday School teacher and an effective minister for the Lord. She served alongside her husband in ministry for more than 58 years in seven Friends Churches in Kansas, Texas, and North Carolina, and through the Church Office of Mid America Friends in Wichita.

Along the way, she was able to touch lives through her loving remembrances of cards and letters. She loved her rose garden and became widely known for her delicious sourdough cinnamon bread, affectionately called, “Betty Bread.” In her later years, Betty accepted the ministry of prayer, devoting herself to praying fervently for her family members, her church family and for missionaries around the world. Betty was preceded in death by her parents, Otto H., II and Louise A. Haardt; husband of 60 years, John L. Robinson; brothers, Otto H. Haardt, III and Albert F. Haardt; sister, Gene Norton; five grandchildren; three great-grandchildren.

Reasons for Hope

By John Punshon

If you were to ask me about what I hope for, I guess I would give you a fairly random set of answers. I hope to see my grandchildren graduate. I hope to visit Hamburg once more before I die. I hope the weather improves before I go on holiday. I hope a cure for Alzheimer’s is found, I hope there isn’t a hold up on the trains when I go to York next week. I hope that one day, one day, the Cincinnati Reds will win another World Series.

Above all, I hope, that when the time is right, I shall depart this life and be with Jesus.

All these different things are linked by the word hope. One has to be a bit careful interpreting each, because hope is not used in the same sense in each case. Dictionaries simply say that hope is a combination of a personal desire and a conjectural future state of affairs. There are various links between the two, but if we really want to get at the heart of hope, we have to pay attention to these links, because they come in various shapes and sizes.

In my examples, the probabilities range from certain to remote. One of the examples depends entirely on my wishes, a couple depend on chance and one is a pretty educated guess at the state of scientific progress. So, how confident am I in each? I can make a guess at each of the earthly possibilities, but what of my final hope? If hope is simply a combination of personal desire and possible future states of affairs, it is hard to see how my dreams of heaven are different from my dreams of cheering the Reds home to a World Series victory.

If hope were just the combination of what I want and what might happen, it would be an interesting psychological phenomenon, but not much else. Indeed, if I were a secularist or a humanist, I think I would argue that this is all there is to it. Hoping is a bit like laying bets: you wager on what you want to happen. There is essentially no difference between my dreams of heaven and my dreams of another Mean Red Machine carrying all before it.

The difference, the missing element, as it were, is faith, which is why hope, in a religious sense, is fundamentally different from hope in the ordinary, workaday sense, the point of my personal examples. As Hebrews 11:1 tells us, if we have faith, then we will discover that what we hope for is actually a reality and not a dream.

This implies two things. First, there is the nature of what scripture calls the realities we do not see. It means, simply, the truth. We do not see the truth, but we have the ability to recognize and understand it. Second, there is the state of our own souls. When we turn to God, we open ourselves to all kinds of possibilities we never knew were there, and we learn how to do things we never thought of before.

These are the coordinates of Christian hope, and they are what distinguishes my hope of heaven from all the other things for which I hope. One can go further and say that we are dealing with a spiritual reality. It obviously has a psychological basis, because it originates in the mind, and we all have different minds and personalities. At the same time it goes well beyond that, because hope is not therapy; it is what leads us into unity with one another and brings us together into the presence of God. It is why we worship.

I am delighted Quaker Life has decided to feature my book Reasons for Hope because it was written, I suppose, to take these things I have just been talking about which are common to all Christians, to see how they look in a Quaker context. I tend to see the different denominations as variations on a single theme, because each one takes the common music of the faith and sees deeply into one aspect of it. That includes us. We have our own integrity to which we have been called by God, and it is up to us to witness to it.

Our tradition does not witness to things by talking about them, which is why some people think “Quaker theology” is a contradiction in terms. It isn’t, of course, though we tend to prefer questions to answers. This not because of diffidence or uncertainty, but to encourage others to discover for themselves the hope that, often unrecognized, lives within them. That, we think, is the way to enter the Kingdom and, in Paul’s words, to rejoice in our hope. There is faith and there is love. What joins them together, let us never forget, is hope.

John Punshon is a retired Professor Quaker Studies Professor from Earlham College and Earlham School of Religion. He is a recorded minister in Indiana Yearly Meeting and lives in the United Kingdom with his wife, Veronica.

Meanderings and Musings – May/June 2013

By Annie Glen – Communications Editor

I am writing this article the day after Easter. I love Easter. Its message is full of hope. The power of resurrected life overcame death, and that power is offered to us. Wow! Yet, as a friend reflected in his sermon yesterday, “What difference does the resurrection make in your life here and now?” That question is difficult to answer. I believe the message of Easter is one filled with hope, but one that demands a response from me.

My friend continued, “Easter does not gloss over the crucifixion. It does not ignore the ugliness and terror of the cross. Easter cannot undo the slaughter of Jesus … Evil, sin, darkness … Call it what you will. It exists. It is real. It is destructive and powerful.” How many times have I completely ignored what came just before the resurrection? I really don’t like to think of it. I really don’t wish to look at the ugliness of evil. Yet, if I truly believe in the message of Easter, then I must understand and acknowledge that evil, destruction and terror are part of the story. Yes, the resurrection brings life, wholeness and healing, but it does so in the midst of darkness.

“Resurrection is hope in the face of despair. It is the evidence that God’s love is stronger than the human capacity to inflict hurt,” my friend urged. The message has two parts: one that is ugly and one that is beautiful. The whole message must be known.

Hope does not deny that evil and ugliness exist. Rather, hope says that there is an even greater power that overcomes this corruption, and that power is my choice today. The responsibility of my choice is to behave in a manner that lives the entire message. When I choose hope in the Easter message, it is my responsibility to neither ignore nor turn a blind eye to evil, but to remain aware, becoming a vessel bringing Light into Darkness. If I live a life that displays confidence in the Easter message, Evil does not win. If I invest in this resurrection, then my life will be a testimony to the fullness of hope, ever a reflection of its power and beauty.

The resurrection continues today through the lives of those who claim to be followers of Christ. People state that their hope is in Jesus. I would go further and state that my hope is in his resurrection and its power.

I pray you will be inspired and challenged as you read this issue filled with the message of hope.

Enjoy!

How can one live in the face of evil?

By John Muhanji

This is a difficult question, yet I see evidence of hope living in the midst of evil quite a bit in Kenya. Africa has had a long history of leaders that demonstrate little regard for human life and the sanctity of life. It seems their respect for the people they serve is held with as much regard as trash that is dumped in the bin. No matter how loudly the people cry, the more destruction and attacks these leaders inflict on the people. Yet, in the midst of the atrocities experienced, the people of Kenya bravely hope for a better future. It does appear irrational to believe that people will always stand firm, unshaken when faced with extreme evil. However, those who place their hope in Christ find peace.

In November 2012, a humanitarian crisis unfolded near the town of Goma. It was said nearly 50,000 people fled their homes ahead of the approaching M23 rebels and the Congolese army. Chaos erupted. Women were raped and killed, men savagely attacked and killed, and children were forced to be soldiers or were used as shields on the war’s frontline. It doesn’t seem like hope could even have a chance in the midst of this evil. Why run when you will be found and abused? Is there any element of hope here?

The hope is in the possibility of finding safety and in finding a way back home. When I visited the Congo in 2007 and came face to face with people who lived in the refugee camps in Tanzania, I saw confident and happy people rebuilding their homes and lives afresh. Hope was in the face of evil. Like Daniel and his companions who were threatened with death if they didn’t worship the gods of Baal, the people of Kenya never gave up hope in the God of their salvation.

It seems evident that hope is strongest and best exercised in the midst of evil. For it is when times are darkest that people look to find salvation. Hope is an immovable force allowing a person to stand ready to proclaim victory in Christ. A person with hope is said to be anchored, firm and secure (Hebrews 6:19). No matter what atrocities are faced, security is firm when anchored in the hope of God.

The lead-up to the most recent election brought many incidents of evil attacks against the average citizen of Kenya. The attacks were felt from all angles with the purpose of discouraging as many people from voting. Yet the opposite effect occurred. The more hurdles or obstacles that were created, the more hope increased and the more people bravely ventured out to vote.

In Mombasa and Kihifi counties just before the voting station doors were to open, 12 people were killed. Immediately the police declared that these attacks were staged by an Islamic group called the Mombasa Republican Council, whose members have been against the election and who demanded secession from Kenya. Despite the deaths and the skirmishes, the Kenyan people from these areas voted in large numbers. Their hope for new leadership did not fade away. They profoundly hope this election will herald a new group of leaders who will end the cruel acts against humanity and lead Kenya to a better future.

The Kenyan people are a people of hope. They believe God hears them and will deliver them out of their troubles (Psalm 34:17). They know the good news of Christ is that, “Every tear will be wiped away from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” (Revelation 21:4) With news such as this, how does one not live in hope?

Throughout the continent, Africans have embedded a theology that provides hope as evil is faced. When fighting the “good fight” (I Timothy 6:12), our foe, fierce as he may be, is a defeated foe. Jesus has victory over sin and death. He is our hope, the hope of our nation.

John Muhanji serves FUM as the director of Africa Ministries. He works with yearly meetings by carrying out leadership workshops and helping meetings facing conflicts. He works with leaders of Quaker churches in Kenya and offers counsel to other mission areas in East Africa. He spends a great deal of time traveling to visit these meetings, which has allowed FUM to be felt in the Africa meetings.

Hope Is A Choice

By Dan Randazzo

I can remember every single time that I have ever lost hope, mainly because it has happened so infrequently. This is not for lack of a good reason to lose hope, however. In fact, hope is often the last reserve of strength for me, my final defense in the face of impending defeat. Maybe it’s a result of my intense stubbornness, yet I absolutely refuse to concede hope, no matter the circumstances. I consider hope to be mine to claim, or to allow, purely on my own initiative. Try and wrest hope from my grasp, and you will find that I will bring every resource to the fight, including the dirty and under-handed. I consider hope to be my most precious possession.

All of this strong talk is not hyperbole. Every day, before I even rise out of bed, I make a commitment to retain my hope: in the day, in God, in my marriage, in my career and in the potential for love and beauty to win the argument against hate and cruelty. I firmly believe that this decision, this continual commitment to hope, is one of the most important spiritual practices that I have ever encountered. It’s really the only practice that has been able to sustain me through every challenge in my life. My hope is not a greeting-card platitude; it’s a warrior, staring despair in the face and, with a smile, saying, “Try and get a piece of me.”

Please do not mistake me, however; I am not claiming to have superhuman powers of hope. It has been tested and tried in the trenches of child abuse, disownment, mental illness and disempowerment. I’ve clung to hope as if my life depended on it. There have been days when my hope has been the only force dragging me out of bed in the morning. I don’t view hope as a special ability reserved for those with greater spiritual and mental strength. Hope is often the only option left for kids trying to make sense of a world where a parent can treat them as if they are subhuman. Hope is the last reserve for parents who, when looking at their sleeping children, have no clue how they will make it to the next paycheck. Hope is the last line of defense for families dealing with chronic illness. Hope is the reserve of the dispossessed, the poor and the marginalized. Hope isn’t a luxury when you are faced with the struggle to retain your dignity and all that makes you human. This is a robust, stubborn hope that can overcome all of the voices telling you that you will fail; this is the only hope that will ever sustain the church in the face of all of its challenges.

Not to sound too dramatic, but this is also the only hope that I can retain in Quakerism. I’m not seeking to be alarmist, either. I don’t foresee or forecast the imminent doom of Quakerism, neither its constituent parts, nor its place as a force for change in the world. Yes, according to demographic projections, many parts of North American and European Quakerism are facing a numerical crisis. Endowments are stretching past the breaking point, and some meetings are faced with the unenviable choice of which bills to pay. We are not alone in this; nearly every denomination in the Christian community is facing similar challenges. It might seem to be a foolhardy gesture to have hope in the future of Quakerism, or even Western Christianity.

Yet, I retain hope. This is the only choice that I have. Then again, this is the only choice that we ever have. The determination to retain hope is the only method that we have to keep the Christian community (or church) alive and healthy. We only have two options when it comes to the church: either we rest complacent, and thus sign the death warrant of the church; or, we fight, with determination, to retain the hope that the church has a present and a future. This is truly one of those exceedingly rare situations where we are faced with a clear binary. Every moment that we rest in the confidence that the church is fine is a moment that we have lost hope in the church. Every moment that we commit ourselves to building the community of God in the world is a moment that we have hope in the church. If this sounds exhausting, it is, and should be. Simply put, this is the most important task that we will ever be faced with as Christians. Building the church is the main reason why we are here, and hope is the main resource that God has provided for us to fulfill this task.

All this makes sense only if we restructure our understanding of church, and of hope. I used to think that church meant a building or even an institution. I’ve searched for the perfect church home for decades, sojourning from the Roman Catholic church through the Anglican Communion, a lay Franciscan Order, and finally, to Quakerism. Every time that I felt as if I had found “it” — the place, the church — I’ve been disappointed. That’s because the church isn’t a building, attendance numbers or even Friends United Meeting. These are all ephemera.

The church isn’t a place; it’s hope itself. The church is our stubborn determination to root our lives in the God who so loved God’s creation that God stared complete hopelessness in the face and still retained hope; this happened not just once, but still happens, every single moment. God demonstrates hope in us through a gritty determination and commitment to remain in relationship with us. We demonstrate hope in God by committing ourselves every day to remain in relationship with God and with each other.

Our church communities are the relationships that help us to best meet God, and give us the strength to maintain hope amidst the challenges of life. Everything serves that end: theology, liturgy, testimonies and even business method. If a community is not fostering hope and committed relationship, it will eventually pass away. We can’t fret about the growth or decline of denominations, for the act of fretting takes away our energies from having the active hope that is the only true lifeblood of a community. Our responsibility is to remain committed to doing the hard work of active, vital hope. If we hope, our communities will be strong and vital, no matter whether or not they still retain Quaker qualities or not.

Right now, I find hope in a Quaker community called the Friends of Jesus Fellowship. The fellowship is a network of local communities and people gathered around the common experience of the living presence of Jesus in community. Many of us still feel rooted in Quakerism and find meaning in its distinctive qualities. I find hope in our focus on building community around a common commitment to remain rooted in our heritage as Quakers, as well to Jesus’s call to be active agents of peace and reconciliation. This call may demand that we adapt to new circumstances that stretch us in painful ways, yet our commitment to relationship with God is paramount.

It’s often said of convinced Friends that we felt immediately at home in Quakerism. One of the gifts of my long and varied journey is that it has given me this very specific perspective: there was a time when I felt at home in Catholicism, with the Anglicans and amongst Franciscans. I don’t believe that I was kidding myself, that these communities weren’t actually right for me. They were each where I was supposed to be at that specific time. At this time in my life, I have hope that Quakerism is where I am supposed to be. I can’t worry about where I am going to need to be tomorrow or if I’m going to eventually move away from Quakerism. Today, I have hope in Quakerism, and that must be enough.

Dan Randazzo shares the adventure of communal living in a small house in Baltimore, Maryland, with his wife, daughter, best friend and dog. He’s very passionate about reconciliation theology, having examined the topic from the perspective of race in Baltimore and religion in Northern Ireland. He is currently writing his doctoral dissertation on the subject of Quaker Reconciliation Theology for the Centre for Postgraduate Quaker Studies at the University of Birmingham (UK).